By Rev.
Brian Wilkie
Pastor of St. Andrew's Christian Community
Rockland, Ontario
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(Re-posted from original Broadcast: - Sunday, February 10th, 2013)
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Broadcast Notes:
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‘Loving God’
Segment 1: This
program is sponsored by the Good News Christian Ministries, 96 Pheasant Run Drive, Ottawa, ON K2J 2R5, Canada, (new address). This is Brian Wilkie speaking.
Today I
am delighted to be able to speak to you once again about the word of God and
the wonderful good news it tells us about our loving Saviour: and our theme
today is about “Loving God.”
Loving
God is the fulfilment of all his commands, for in Mt 22:34–40, this is what happened:
“Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the
Pharisees got together. One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this
question: “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”
Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart
and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest
commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All
the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
Likewise
the apostle John wrote to the church :
“God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God
in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have
confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. There
is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do
with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love
God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his
brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And he has
given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.
That’s
from John’s first letter, in chapter 4,
verses 16-21.
It is
clear throughout Scripture that loving God is the greatest command; and the
command to love one another is directly derived from it, as the love of God
compels us to love all those whom God loves!
Now
would you listen with me to this traditional hymn, which is a declaration of
the disciple’s love for God : My Jesus I love Thee. It’s sung by the Grace
Presbyterian Chancel Choir, of Houston Texas.
Segment 2: (introduction of Message)
Now when I address the topic of loving God, I often
feel that I could be repeating myself. In fact in preaching week after week,
you can’t help wondering if you have been hammering on one gong too many times.
But, you know, the theme of loving God is something we can’t over emphasize. It
is central to the call of the Gospel, and love is a concept that is so easily
misunderstood. I believe that one of the things we really need to be clear
about is what it actually means to love God.
Love is such a frequently used word in our culture.
Back in the 1950’s, C.S.Lewis wrote a book called ‘The Four Loves’ and he used
that book to expound upon the four different words for love that we find in the
text of the New Testament, and in classical literature.
There were four words
for love representing different aspects of love. Now, one could wonder if that
would be a little confusing, like having hundreds of different words for snow,
or something like that. But we’ve got a more confusing situation than that in
the modern day, when we have one word that covers so many different ideas and
experiences.
Think about the word ‘love.’ You’ve probably used it
already today. “I love that television show,” “I just love cake!” “Isn’t this a
lovely day?” You may even have said to someone close by, “I love you.” Are we
talking about the same thing every time we use the word love? Let’s think about
it.
When someone says they love ice cream, what do they
really mean? Do they mean that they would like to marry ice cream? (Don’t kids
make jokes about that misunderstanding?) No, what they mean is that ice cream
tastes good, and they like to eat it. When we say we love some things, we
simply mean that we want to consume them for our own pleasure. Is that what we
mean when we say we love a person? That we want to use them up and toss them
away? Unfortunately that is what some people do mean by love.
But with ice cream it is perfectly good to eat it as
a result of your love for it. With chocolate and cookies, and so many other
things that we say we love, we love them because of how they make us feel, or
the experience they give us. We consume them and that is the mark of our love
for them. Ice cream exists to be
consumed, and those who love ice cream eat it.
There are other things we love, which we don’t
consume, yet we still have a different kind of love than we would have for a
person. You might love a beautiful sunrise. You mean you enjoy it and it makes
you feel good. You would be happy to get up on another morning and see another
sunrise like that and enjoy it. It is a love that is a good feeling, that is
enjoyable, and isn’t exclusive. You can love more than one sunrise, you can go
and enjoy every sunrise that comes along. But the love you feel, like the love
of ice cream is really a self love. You love this thing because it does
something for you, you love the beautiful day because it makes you feel good.
Even when we love people the word ‘love’ can still describe a very selfish,
self-centred approach. Very often when we are adolescents even in later years,
sometimes our love for a girlfriend or boyfriend can be extraordinarily
selfish. Don’t we sometimes look at young people falling in love, and wonder
when they are going to find the real thing? And don’t we sometimes find
ourselves being selfish in our own relationships, and wondering what happened
to the love? Because we can’t honestly call it love of another person when the
love is mostly about using them; and getting something out of it for ourselves.
What do we mean by this higher love, when we truly,
truly love another person? Doesn’t it mean to want to be a blessing to them?
Doesn’t it mean to pour something into their lives that makes them a better
person? Isn’t love of another person not about how they make you feel, but
about how you want to make them feel?
That’s where we get closer to the meaning of love in
the gospels. The love of God is a love that comes to us despite the fact that
we’ve rebelled against him, despite the fact that doom hangs over us because of
our selfishness. God comes to us in love and wants to bless us and deliver us
from evil. Don’t we do the same for those we truly love?
What does it look like when a parent loves their
child? That love results in the parent caring, teaching providing for their
child. The parent does get some joy out of it they enjoy their children. The
parent also gets some frustration (just once in a while). The parent also makes
some sacrifices; misses out on a lot of things that they might have been able
to do, because they have expended their resources, their time and their energy
on their child. Love in this sense is giving of ourselves.
Now a parent loves a child, but doesn’t always do
what the child wants them to do. A parent in their relationship with that child
in the proper kind of love takes some authority and some responsibility for
that child. On the other hand, if we love a teach, we want to learn from them,
we put ourselves under their authority. In the same way the child who loves the
parents accepts authority from them when they exercise that authority in love.
You see, the way that love is acted out depends on the relationship in which it
exists. We love people and act according to their gifts, characteristics, and
their particular place in our lives.
Let’s pause here as we think about love and listen
to this band from an Acquire the Fire Youth Rally. This upbeat song they
talk about God being “Better Than” anything else in the entire world.
Segment 3: (Conclusion of Message)
Well, now that we are talking about love, and how we
act when we love somebody in particular relationships, I want to speak of a
love we don’t talk about too much. How do you act when you love your boss? When
you love your employer?
I don’t mean that you have a romantic feeling for
your employer; you just think they are a great boss. Your love for them results
in you wanting to do your job the best you possibly can. You want to do your
job in a way that makes their life easier. You want to be a blessing, and the
way you bless your employer is by doing the work that is assigned to you, and
do it to the best of your ability. Isn’t it natural for someone who loves their
job to put their best effort into it, to do it with care and the best quality.
Isn’t that something like the way we love the Lord our God?
The word ‘Lord’ is a fancy word for someone who has
authority over you. When you acknowledge someone as Lord, you are agreeing that
they have the right to direct your path, to tell you how to live, to lead you
in the way that you should go. The love of God the love that we have for God is
not the love of a parent for a child. It is not as though we provide for God,
nor do we protect him or teach him. Instead the tables are turned: we are
provided for by God, we learn from God, and we follow and obey him. Some people
say that if we love God, and he loves us, it should be totally free, and there
should be no obligations on our part. But that is not how it works in love when
someone is worthy of authority, obedience and all of our devotion. For the God
that directs us is a loving God, he directs us along paths that are good. When
I say that, I must add the caveat, the clause, that when God directs us along
His way, it is not always for our immediate good. When God directs us, he leads
us to be a blessing to our neighbours, and our world, we may suffer on account
of obedience to God, but it is still the right thing to do. He is not Lord
simply because He says so, nor because He is more powerful than us. He is Lord
because He is right and good, and He loves us. He is Lord because he is our
creator, He is our Saviour, He is our God.
When Jesus taught that the greatest command is to
love the Lord our God with all our heart and all our mind, and all our soul,
(and in one Gospel he adds, ‘all our strength’) he is telling us that the love
of God surpasses every other love. He puts it more bluntly when he says that if
we don’t despise all other loves, even our own life, compared to the love of
God, we are not really getting it, we are not really following God. God’s love
surpasses all other love. The love for God is the umbrella under which all
other loves myust be gathered.
To love God with our whole mind is to desire to know
Him and learn from Him. We allow all our
thoughts, opinions and attitudes to be shaped by Him. It’s a delight to be a
pastor and to be able to spend day after day studying God’s Word with his
people. In my church in Rockland I’m
able to study Paul’s letter to the Corinthians on Monday with a group of ladies
from the church. I’m able to study the book of Acts in French with a group in
the church. I’m exploring Judges and Samuel on Wednesday nights, and sometimes
we celebrate the adaptation of the Gospel into songs and hymns with a Thursday
morning group. I am to expand my understanding of God, and see his goodness in
his Word and in all his good actions. As we study God in his Word, our love for
him only increases as we see how in every way he is worthy of honour and praise
and glory.
When we love God with our heart we are really not
primarily emotions, but expressing a love that is at the centre of our life,
the core of our being at the center of everything. When we love God with our
strength we are using our time and our waking hours, we are using our muscles
and our ability to bless others for His glory.
Jesus didn’t say we had to have a great mind to love
God, Just love him with all your mind. You don’t have to have the biggest
heart, just love him with all you’ve got. We don’t have to be body builders,
marathon runners or ultra athletes, but just love him with the strength we have.
Now when we exercise our hearts and minds and bodies
in his service, our mental capacity, our loving capacity, our physical
abilities and talents will improve, just as any exercise has benefits. God
merely asks that what you have you offer to him in love.
Now you cannot love anyone else with the love that
God deserves. Nobody else is worth it. It would be wrong to love any human
being or any created thing with such an all surpassing love. It is in fact the
very first command in the Ten Commandments, that we should have no other Gods
before him. There is only one who deserves our worship, and deserves all honour
and praise. No one else deserves such complete submission, because no one else
is as wise or as good and true as God. We dare not give our full obedience to
any earthly master; instead we give our full devotion to God in Christ.
Yet even though God is Worthy, we cannot love God as
we ought to. The command to love God with all our heart, soul, mind and
strength drives us to prayer. The command reveals our need for redemption in
Christ, because without Christ we cannot be weaned off our self love or our
worship of lesser things- idols, unless Christ comes to us in the power of the
Holy Spirit and delivers us. So we come to God in prayer seeking him to give us
the love that we ought to have. Let’s do that now. Let’s come before God, in
prayer:
Would
you pray with me?
Loving God, thank you that in Jesus Christ you have
revealed all your goodness, all your love, all your compassion, all your wisdom
and all your power. And we see in Christ, you so truly revealed that we’ve
discovered as you have shown us, that you are worthy of all our love and
praise. O Lord set our hearts free from attachment to things that are not
worthy, and set our hearts on you: our hearts, our minds, our strength, and our
souls. In Jesus Name, Amen.
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Now we
conclude our program with music from
Michael Card :That’s what faith must be.
May you
know Jesus Christ personally and profoundly. May the Holy Spirit reside deep
within your heart. And may the heavenly Father surround you with his constant
and abiding and accompanying love.
Rev. Brian Wilkie
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